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David Robertson, 46, was married for six years before he and his wife Sarah started exploring sex with strangers – and he says the results have been mind-blowing!<\/p>\n
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David loves watching his wife with a frisky young stud. Let’s hope he doesn’t get stage fright!<\/p>\n
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My wife Sarah is the love of my life \u2013 she makes everything fun. Even watching paint dry with her would be more exciting than beers with my sporting hero David Beckham. I truly adore every part of her, she\u2019s gorgeous and makes me laugh more than anyone else.
So you\u2019d be forgiven for thinking the last thing I\u2019d want to do is share her with other men, that I\u2019d be jealous and worry about losing her.
But that\u2019s not the case.
For the past nine years she\u2019s been sleeping with other men \u2013 her current tally is 32 – in front of me and it\u2019s a huge turn on for both of us. I\u2019m not there as a voyeur \u2013 I take part in pleasuring her too, though as I\u2019m straight I don\u2019t get involved with the other man.
I love seeing her sexuality at play, and she likes the novelty of a new sexual partner and two men giving her their undivided attention.
It\u2019s a unique pleasure. It\u2019s not better than having sex just the two of us, it feels like something completely different. When it\u2019s just the two of us, it\u2019s more often than not a experience, it\u2019s intimate and we make love. With this it\u2019s purely sexual, there\u2019s no emotion involved. Sometimes we barely talk to the other man.
Sarah, who\u2019s 44, and I met on a night out 19 years ago and got married four years later. I knew I was in love with her after three dates. We\u2019re two peas in a pod, both adventurous with a love of travel and a filthy sense of humour.
We chose not to have children as we\u2019re both very career orientated – she\u2019s in publishing and I\u2019m in finance – but also because we didn\u2019t want to be tied down in any way and Sarah isn\u2019t maternal.
From the beginning our sex life was explosive. We\u2019re both highly sexed and adventurous. We enjoyed making love in public places, such as parks and pub loos. Before her I\u2019d never imagined I\u2019d meet a woman who enjoyed sex as much as I did. My libido had caused problems in other relationships \u2013 two of them ended because our sex drives were so mismatched.
I can\u2019t remember which one of us mentioned we\u2019d be open to trying group sex first – we often chatted about fantasies and this one caught on and evolved until we decided to go for it and have sex with another man.
The first time was at an outdoor naturist and swingers club. We thought we\u2019d go along and see what happened – we were open to anything from just having sex in the open air to meeting someone and asking them to join us.
I wasn\u2019t nervous, I have enormous faith in Sarah, she\u2019d only do what she felt comfortable doing and she\u2019s very in tune with me so I knew she\u2019d realise if I wasn\u2019t happy. I was full of anticipation and wanted to know how the fantasy would play out in reality.\u00a0
We got there and Sarah was one of only a handful of women there – most were single men – so we were swamped and went off to be together quietly. We ended up in the swimming pool and that\u2019s when Sarah whispered in my ear that she fancied someone else in the pool. She asked if I\u2019d mind if she approached him and of course I didn\u2019t – on the contrary I was very excited.
She kissed him and led him over and then we retired to a private space and had sex. At first I was just intrigued to watch Sarah, this was the woman I love with another man.<\/p>\n
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Swingers’ parties: Fun, but the interior design needs a rethink. Those curtains will induce migraines<\/p>\n
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It\u2019s a surreal feeling, every sense was on high alert. When I joined in it was explosive. As was our sex later that night when we talked about what we\u2019d done.
It more than lived up to the fantasy – we both loved it. Though I wasn\u2019t nervous it was wonderful that for both of us it was so fulfilling and there was no downside. So from then on I was hooked. We\u2019ve been back to the same club a few times then we found an online website and have met men on there too.\u00a0 We have met couples a handful of times, where I\u2019ve slept with the woman too, but that\u2019s a different dynamic. Neither of us are bisexual and often the couples are looking for the women to play together and Sarah isn\u2019t interested. The few times we have done it, have been fulfilling, but for a different reason. It\u2019s always fun to have the novelty of sleeping with a new body and Sarah enjoys seeing me with another woman, but as I say it\u2019s more complicated.
For me the pleasure is tied up with enjoying Sarah\u2019s sexuality so much, I love seeing her having a great time and witnessing how excited other men are when they see her, it makes me proud. I also have a voyeuristic streak. I\u2019ve enjoyed watching porn from when I was a teenager and this is real life porn starring the woman I love. Sarah isn\u2019t as voyeuristic \u2013 I don\u2019t think women are generally.<\/p>\n
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David’s days of watching porn are over – his wife gives him all the saucy scenes he needs!<\/p>\n
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It\u2019s not an every day occurrence, but we\u2019ve ended up doing it three or four times a year for the past nine years. It\u2019s invariably exciting – as it\u2019s always different because the man is always new. So you never know quite what\u2019s going to happen, we never see the same person twice. I\u2019m absolutely straight – though I do enjoy witnessing another man having pleasure. Many couples who do this have rules, such as not kissing, but we don\u2019t \u2013 we like to go with the flow.
It\u2019s not something we talk about with our friends. I did confide in one mate and he couldn\u2019t get his head round it – I think he pitied me and worried that Sarah didn\u2019t find me enough. That\u2019s far from the truth. The only reason we can risk experimenting is because our sex life is phenomenal in its own right. The danger is when you do it because you sex life is lacklustre and you\u2019re both seeking fulfilment elsewhere.
Some of my friends are having affairs and will tell me about it. They seem proud of sneaking around and \u2018having their cake and eating it\u2019. I find it depressing. My relationship is with my wife and very fulfilling.
There’s one thing I would never let her do and that is to get with another man without me being there. Sarah and I would never play around without each other \u2013 that\u2019s not our thing, though I know some couples do and that\u2019s fine too, you have to do what works for both of you.
I never worry that she\u2019ll have more pleasure with someone else, or care if they\u2019re more well endowed than me. Most men are roughly the same size anyway!
Our relationship is very honest. We don\u2019t have children, we\u2019re financially independent of each other, we don\u2019t need to be together. We want to be.
I think men and women are often threatened by each other\u2019s sexuality because they fear it will lead to them being left. I have no such fears, so I can relish being with a woman who enjoys sex as much as I do and has no hang ups about showing it.<\/p>\n
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