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Insiders say that with Ben lacking any \u2018sexy time\u2019, J.Lo has shown him exactly what he\u2019s missing out on\u2026<\/p>\n
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J.Lo shocked viewers by kissing a female dancer<\/p>\n
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Her sexy outfits and shock lesbian kiss at the American Music Awards last week may have had fans divided, but the question on everyone’s lips right now is: What did Ben Affleck think?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s been five months since their bombshell divorce was finalised, just two-and-half years since the couple said \u2018I do\u2019 in a reunion that fans had hoped would be JLo\u2019s fairy tale ending. <\/p>\n
But while the A list pair are no longer husband and wife, their initial sizzling chemistry was so strong that JLo, 55, and Ben, 52, gravitated towards each other almost two decades after their original split in 2004. <\/p>\n
And now a source tells us that JLo\u2019s sexy \u2018revenge\u2019 on Ben \u2013 which saw her passionately snog both a male and a female backing dancer on stage \u2013 certainly had its desired effect on her ex, who was left ‘swooning’ over how hot she looked. <\/p>\n
The insider tells us, \u2018Ben tuned into the AMAs and was swooning over J.Lo and how hot she looked that night. He says it’s staggering just how ageless she is, and he loves that she\u2019s willing to push the envelope and step out in these ultra sexy, flesh baring outfits. <\/p>\n
\u2018Ever since the divorce everyone knows how JLo\u2019s been on this mission to show Ben what he\u2019s missing and in that respect she\u2019s definitely succeeded – especially at a time when he\u2019s lacking any \u2018sexy time\u2019 in his life right now.\u2019 <\/p>\n
In a series of gorgeous and revealing outfits that rivalled THAT Versace dress, JLo also went a step further, announcing that she was ‘free’ and ‘happy’ with her newly single life, also dropping that she’s set to return to Ceasar’s Palace in Las Vegas for another residency this winter. <\/p>\n
And the source says that, despite his own low-key vibe when it comes to style, \u2018diva\u2019 JLo\u2019s dedication to glamour has always proved a huge attraction for Ben.<\/p>\n
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Ben has been swooning over his ex\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Marking her 52nd birthday just three months after their reunion back in April 2021, JLo shared a series of steamy snaps, one of which showed her and Ben sharing a passionate kiss. JLo, naturally, didn\u2019t hold back from her all-out glamour, wearing a tiny orange bikini accessorised with smoky eyes and a chain of gold necklaces. <\/p>\n
Now the insider tells us, \u2018Ben has always found JLo\u2019s love of glamour a real turn-on, even now he privately admits she was the sexiest gal he\u2019s ever dated. One of his big things that swung it for him in the first place was her confidence and the fact she\u2019s willing to flaunt her sexiness for everyone to see.<\/p>\n
‘It was a huge kick that he had this ultimate trophy girlfriend then wife, with all these guys drooling over her and saying how lucky he was to be the one taking her home.\u2019 <\/p>\n
However, after two years of marriage, their relationship soured, with rumours that JLo\u2019s love of the limelight and the \u2018drama\u2019 surrounding her mega stardom had become too much for camera-shy Ben, who has always been honest about how he loathes the promotional part of his job. <\/p>\n
On appearing in JLo\u2019s documentary, This Is Me Now\u2026A Love Story, Ben recalled, \u2018My temperament is to be a little bit more reserved and private than hers\u2026 And I think the thing that I said in that documentary\u2026where I said, \u2018You don\u2019t marry a ship captain and then say, ‘Well, I don\u2019t like going out in the water.’ You\u2019ve got to own what you knew going into any relationship.\u2019<\/p>\n
But despite their undeniable attraction to one another, the source says Ben \u2013 who shares Violet, 19, Fin, 16, and Sam, 13, with his first wife, Jennifer Garner \u2013 won\u2019t willingly return to the \u2018fame circus\u2019 that surrounded JLo. <\/p>\n
They tell us, \u2018Their sex life was white hot, too, until things went south in the marriage and they started arguing. Now say from bitter personal experience that it takes a whole lot more than sex and looks to make a romance last for the long term.<\/p>\n
\u2018Ben is very clear that the next woman he dates is going to be someone that\u2019s a lot more low key. He just can\u2019t deal with the fame circus and that\u2019s something that will never change about JLo, it\u2019s who she is.\u2019 <\/p>\n
And the source says that, after pictures emerged of Ben with his arms wrapped around Jen during a paintballing trip with their children in March, he has been reflecting on the differences between the two main women in his life. <\/p>\n
They add, \u2018It was almost the opposite situation with Jen Garner, who\u2019s way more conservative and doesn\u2019t go in for all the showing off or extrovert stuff that JLo buzzes off. She\u2019s totally addicted to the attention.\u2019<\/p>\n
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Ben and J.Lo were married for less than two years<\/p>\n
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However, when it comes to keeping in shape, the source says Ben is turning to JLo for fitness inspiration. <\/p>\n
Despite leaving fans swooning with his iconic \u2018dishevelled and moody\u2019 vibes, a source previously told us that Ben has been forcing himself to smarten up and shape up in a bid to appeal to a younger generation of women after it was reported earlier this year that he has started \u2018casually dating\u2019 again. <\/p>\n
A source told us in April, \u2018When he was with JLo she was always pushing him to get in the gym and workout and that definitely made him more critical of himself. He\u2019s been working out and dieting because he\u2019s worried about how he\u2019ll feel when he does actually strip down in front of a much younger woman. He doesn\u2019t want to feel like a pot-bellied, middle-aged man.\u2019<\/p>\n
Now our source adds, \u2018Ben is both impressed and dazzled by how hot and glamorous JLo is. He\u2019s in awe of how hard she works and finds it inspiring, it shows him that age doesn\u2019t have to be an excuse to let things go. She\u2019s in the best shape of her life and she\u2019s nearly 56 years old so there\u2019s no reason Ben can\u2019t push himself harder in the gym. <\/p>\n
\u2018Her appearance at the AMAs showed that she\u2019s definitely stepped up at the gym and Ben definitely gives her credit for it. He always says she\u2019s got the most banging body – but that doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s looking to get back together.\u2019<\/p>\n
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