{"id":10577,"date":"2025-06-07T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-07T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flatplanplus.io\/grazia\/?p=10577"},"modified":"2025-06-06T15:59:25","modified_gmt":"2025-06-06T15:59:25","slug":"like-miley-cyrus-i-struggled-when-my-dad-met-a-new-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flatplanplus.io\/grazia\/2025\/06\/07\/like-miley-cyrus-i-struggled-when-my-dad-met-a-new-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Like Miley Cyrus, I struggled when my dad met a new woman&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;custom-post-title&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|700||on|||||&#8221; header_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; header_font_size=&#8221;46px&#8221; header_letter_spacing=&#8221;4px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;25px||5px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||true|false&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<h1 class=\"wp-block wp-block-post-title block-editor-block-list__block editor-post-title editor-post-title__input rich-text\" aria-label=\"Add title\" role=\"textbox\">&#8216;Like Miley Cyrus, I struggled when my dad met a new woman&#8217;<\/h1>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;intro-wrap&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;|600|on||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#808080&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16px&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<p>It\u2019s a hard situation to navigate, says one writer.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;credit-name&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; header_4_font=&#8221;|||on|||||&#8221; header_4_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<p><strong>Words by Anonymous<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/flatplan-plus-content.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2025\/06\/GettyImages-1472442509-1-scaled.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;Kim Kardashian&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Versace FW23 Show &#8211; Front Row And Inside&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<p>Billy Ray and Miley\u2019s mother, Tish Cyrus, were also married for several decades, separating in 2011 and again in 2013 before finally divorcing in 2022.<\/p>\n<p>My own parents\u2019 marriage was often unhappy and sometimes downright toxic, so by the time they told me they were divorcing, when I was 34, I felt sad but also relieved.<\/p>\n<p>A friend asked if I thought they\u2019d eventually meet other people, and I scoffed. Like Billy Ray, who is 63 (Hurley is 59), they were in their sixties so I assumed they were simply too old to start over.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/flatplan-plus-content.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2025\/06\/GettyImages-2216895206-scaled.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; title_text=&#8221;%22Orizzonti | Rosso%22 Exhibition Opening Dinner&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<p>Until my father sat me down and told me he\u2019d met someone; a widow a few years younger than him who he\u2019d become friends with at the golf club. I burst into tears and he was crestfallen at my reaction.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t pinpoint why I was so upset. Like Miley, the adult part of my brain told me it was his life, and what difference did it make to my mine? But the child inside me thought this was wrong, and the thought of him with anyone other than my mum felt alien.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||5px|||&#8221;]<p>After the upset came the discomfort at the thought of Dad \u2013 by then approaching 70 \u2013 having a physical relationship with another woman. He was meant to be an ageing father and a grandfather, not someone\u2019s lover. 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