{"id":2230,"date":"2024-02-27T13:08:50","date_gmt":"2024-02-27T13:08:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flatplanplus.io\/grazia\/?p=2230"},"modified":"2024-02-27T13:22:25","modified_gmt":"2024-02-27T13:22:25","slug":"test-test-999","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flatplanplus.io\/grazia\/2024\/02\/27\/test-test-999\/","title":{"rendered":"TEST TEST 999"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;custom-post-title&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|700||on|||||&#8221; header_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; header_font_size=&#8221;46px&#8221; header_letter_spacing=&#8221;4px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;25px||5px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||true|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h1>Want To Try Pegging? Here&#8217;s How To Talk To Your Boyfriend About It<\/h1>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;intro-wrap&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;|600|on||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#808080&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16px&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Sex and relationship expert Annabelle Knight explains everything you need to know about the hottest new sex trend for 2024&#8230;<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;credit-name&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; header_4_font=&#8221;|||on|||||&#8221; header_4_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p><strong>Words by<\/strong> Georgia Aspinall<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/flatplan-plus-content.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/02\/we-vibe-toys-nyMfwv7LBPw-unsplash.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;Jennifer Aniston&#8221; title_text=&#8221;we-vibe-toys-nyMfwv7LBPw-unsplash&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Have you ever found yourself in the smoking area of your local bar, four drinks in, asking the guy you\u2019ve been flirting with all night if he\u2019d let you peg him? I have, in fact I\u2019m pretty sure it\u2019s a universal female experience for 20somethings at this point \u2013 at least if the Gen Zs on TikTok are to be believed. In recent years, #pegging content has sky-rocketed on the app, thanks in large part to comedic references across pop culture (it\u2019s popped up in Deadpool, And Just Like That and Broad City).<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<p><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@derekvlogss\/video\/7332553390364429598\" data-video-id=\"7332553390364429598\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@derekvlogss\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@derekvlogss?refer=embed\">@derekvlogss<\/a> <p><\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Derek Mendez\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7332553664621464351?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Derek Mendez<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script> <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>It\u2019s not that we\u2019re all pegging each other in droves these days, although some certainly are, but apparently asking a man whether or not he\u2019s into pegging is the ultimate indicator of whether or not he\u2019s \u2018boyfriend material\u2019. As in, his reaction will tell you a lot about how secure he is in his sexuality, his deepest desires, and how he views women who loudly proclaim their sexual agency without shame.<\/p>\n<p>It has thus led to a lot of Googling around the sexual act. \u2018What is pegging?\u2019 is a breakout search term on Google term right now, as is \u2018Do women like pegging?\u2019 and somewhat concerningly, \u2018Is pegging gay?\u2019 (if you\u2019re reading this with such concern, we can confirm that partaking in pegging has no bearing on a person\u2019s sexuality \u2013 it\u2019s just a sex act, big guy).<\/p>\n<p>Given how much intrigue there is around pegging, we spoke to sex and relationship expert Annabelle Knight, to get the lowdown on the new popular sex trend. So, if you\u2019re looking to try out pegging for the first time and want to know where to start, or you\u2019re a pegging connoisseur looking for extra tips to spice things up, look no further\u2026<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/flatplan-plus-content.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/02\/Pegging.jpg&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Pegging&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>What is pegging?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>The question on everybody\u2019s lips! Pegging is a penetrative sexual act whereby one person wears a strap-on dildo and anally penetrates their partner.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>How popular is pegging?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Pegging is more popular than people think. According to The Women\u2019s Health Interactive, 16% of adults have tried it, and sales of pegging products are rising by over 40% yearly. So perhaps even more people are giving it a go than are willing to say!<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Why do people like pegging?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Pegging is a huge exercise in trust, which can heighten feelings of intimacy and create stronger bonds between partners. It also allows for each partner to walk a mile in the other\u2019s shoes when it comes to each other&#8217;s roles between the sheets. This can lead to a greater understanding of one another\u2019s experiences and increase the potential for pleasure during future sexual encounters.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>I\u2019m a complete beginner, how do I introduce pegging into my sex life? <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>With lube! The anus isn\u2019t self-lubricating, so no matter how much you want to try it, how turned on you are, or how much foreplay you engage in, it\u2019s going to need a little help when it comes to lubrication. Make sure you\u2019re opting for a water-based anal lube. This is for two reasons, firstly water-based lubes are safest to use with toys, and condoms, plus they are extremely skin-friendly. Anal lubes are formulated slightly differently to be thicker and longer lasting.<\/p>\n<p>The next step is to get shopping, and level up your experience by searching for the right toys to try together. This will help to open up (ahem!) the conversation around what you both want to get from the experience and help you to discuss boundaries and expectations\u2026 which is something else key to making sure your pegging play is as perfect as can be.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>I want to try pegging with my partner but I\u2019m not sure how to bring it up, any advice?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>My go-to advice for gauging your partner\u2019s reaction to something like this is to bring it up by proxy. By this I mean to mention it in passing, you read it in a magazine, saw it in a film, or overheard someone else talking about it. This allows you to bring up your fantasy or fetish in a safe way. Your partner won\u2019t feel as though they have to react a certain way, which means you are more likely to get a completely honest response from them.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>The great thing about pegging is that it stimulates the male prostate, but how do you find the prostate?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>The easiest way to find the prostate is to use some lube, the anal passage and a willing finger (do be sure to trim those nails.) The prostate, or \u2018P Spot\u2019 as it\u2019s sometimes called is roughly a couple of inches inside the anus on the front wall. If you think about aiming for your belly button from inside your body you\u2019re in the right ballpark. The area is made largely made up of nerves and veins and tends to feel softer or more rubbery than the rest of the tissue. Pressing it may incite a feeling of needing to pee, this is because the prostate gland sits right by the bladder.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Is pegging safe?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>If done properly pegging is completely safe. Make sure you take things slowly and use plenty of lube. A little discomfort in places is normal, however, if it hurts then you should stop. I\u2019d recommend investing in a pegging kit, these come with different sized dildos so you can work your way up to more challenging toys if that\u2019s something that you\u2019re interested in.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>What are your top tips for mastering pegging?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Talk things through first. The last thing any person wants when engaging in any new sexual act like this is a surprise! So, make sure you\u2019ve covered all your bases by talking with each other first.<\/p>\n<p>Discuss what you\u2019d like to get out of pegging. There\u2019s a practical side to think about too, for example, if you\u2019re the \u2018giver\u2019 and you\u2019re much smaller than your partner you may need to do a little planning so the moment isn\u2019t ruined by trying to find a box to stand on!<\/p>\n<p>You should also settle on a safe word, this is a word you\u2019re unlikely to say in the throes of passion and one that you both agree means that no matter what, play stops. Remember, when it comes to pegging, slow and steady wins the race\u2026 that, and lots of anal lube.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;fp-in-article-bold&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Black Han Sans|||on|||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Are there any myths about pegging that need to be dispelled?<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.20.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>The main misconception I find about pegging is that it has some sort of bearing on sexuality. It doesn\u2019t. Many, many people from all genders and sexual orientations enjoy anal play, the fact of the matter is \u2013 it feels good. 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