Words by ANNABELLE KNIGHT<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/flatplan-plus-content.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/11\/GettyImages-1081897806.jpg” alt=”Man and woman in bed” title_text=”The young couple kissing in the bed” force_fullwidth=”on” _builder_version=”4.20.4″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.20.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”] Let\u2019s be honest: most of us think we\u2019ve got it all figured out when it comes to the male member – after all, it\u2019s pretty straightforward, right? Wrong. When it comes to pleasure, stimulation, and intimacy, there\u2019s more to male anatomy than we might give it credit for.<\/p>\n And understanding it better isn\u2019t just about boosting his pleasure, it\u2019s about bettering sexual experiences for all involved. Appreciating the complexities of intimate pleasure when it comes to the penis can enhance the connection you share and open up new possibilities for arousal and pleasure. So, with that in mind, here are eight things you really should know about the penis\u2026 and male pleasure. Hang on to your hats!<\/p>\n The general view from society is that men need the mere sniff of potential sex and they\u2019re raring and ready to go. While this may be true for a percentage of guys, it\u2019s not a hard (no pun intended) and fast rule. It\u2019s easy to focus on the physical side of things, but male arousal starts in the brain. Stress, fatigue, or anxiety can be a real mood killer and can even prevent arousal entirely. Emotional connection and feeling desired can matter just as much to men as they do to women.<\/p>\n Pro tip<\/strong>: Build positive anticipation throughout the day. A sexy text, a genuine compliment, or an unexpected kiss can work wonders for his arousal.<\/p>\n Not every erection is a rock-solid tribute to sex. Morning wood, arousal erections, and \u2018maintenance erections\u2019 (the ones that happen with seemingly no rhyme or reason) all serve different purposes. Erections can happen even at the most inopportune time and they\u2019re not always a precursor to sexual activity or the result of stimulation.<\/p>\n Pro tip:<\/strong> Don\u2019t take a \u2018soft\u2019 moment personally. It\u2019s not a reflection of your appeal, a statement on your relationship, or a comment on your sexual skills. It could be stress, a full stomach, or even just biology. Be patient and playful instead of pressuring and remember, there\u2019s a lot more to sex than penetration.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.20.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”] The frenulum is the small ridge of skin on the underside of the penis, where the shaft meets the head, and it\u2019s one of the most sensitive areas of the penis. Stimulating it gently, with your tongue, fingers, or a vibrator, can send pleasure into overdrive. The frenulum contains many \u2018free nerve endings\u2019, which makes it exceptionally sensitive, so handle it with care.<\/p>\n Pro tip:<\/strong> Use circular motions or teasing touches during oral or manual play. Experiment with textures, like a silk scarf or a cooling gel, to keep things interesting.<\/p>\n The head of the penis, or glans, is packed with nerve endings \u2014 but that doesn\u2019t mean you should go full throttle right away. Direct stimulation can sometimes feel overwhelming or even uncomfortable if he\u2019s not fully aroused.<\/p>\n Pro tip:<\/strong> Start slow. Think of it as savouring a fine wine instead of downing a shot. Warm up the shaft and testicles first before focusing on the head, gentle massage is the way forward.<\/p>\n The penis may get all the attention, but erogenous zones like the perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus) and nipples are often overlooked. For many men, they\u2019re major pleasure receptors. Some even report enjoying armpit stimulation, neck nibbles and gentle tickles behind the knees\u2026 the great thing about pleasure is it knows no bounds. Experimentation with your partner can result in the most fantastic outcomes such as a new pleasure point being discovered or a deeper connection being felt.<\/p>\n Pro tip<\/strong>: Try light massage, kissing, or using your tongue in these areas. Pay attention to his reactions \u2014 you might uncover a new favourite spot!<\/p>\n Believe it or not, men can orgasm without ejaculating and vice versa. The two are linked but not exclusive. Some men even explore \u2018dry orgasms\u2019 through certain techniques, which is where they climax but don\u2019t ejaculate \u2013 this is because some believe there are physical and mental health benefits from this type of orgasm.<\/p>\n Pro tip:<\/strong> Encourage him to focus on sensations instead of rushing to climax. Prolonging the buildup can lead to a more intense release for both of you. Think of it as a jog to the finish line, not a sprint.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.20.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”] Testicles are sensitive in every sense of the word. They\u2019re full of nerve endings, which means they receive pleasure well, but they\u2019re also highly vulnerable to pain. Gentle touching, licking, or light sucking can heighten pleasure and add depth to your lovemaking\u2026 as long as he\u2019s into it. If he is, encourage him to show you the type of pressure he enjoys and you can follow his lead.<\/p>\n Pro tip:<\/strong> Cup them gently or use warming lubricant to add extra sensations to play. Always check in with him to ensure you\u2019re staying in the pleasure zone.<\/p>\n After ejaculation the penis can become hypersensitive, making continued stimulation uncomfortable or sometimes even painful. That doesn\u2019t mean the fun has to stop, just switch gears and focus on a different way to enjoy one another instead. Pro tip:<\/strong> Focus on cuddling, kissing, or massaging other areas after his climax. It\u2019s a great way to keep the connection alive while he recovers.<\/p>\n Understanding the nuances of male pleasure is about more than just your technique; it\u2019s about fostering communication, trust, and curiosity. So, don\u2019t be afraid to ask questions, try new things, and most importantly, have fun exploring together. Because when you truly get the penis, you\u2019ll realize it\u2019s not just about him. It\u2019s about the intimacy you share as a couple, creating pleasurable moments and building a deeper connection that will stand your relationship in good stead – and don\u2019t forget, if in doubt ask! Communication, in whatever form works for you, is the cornerstone of any happy and healthy sexual experience.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=”credit-texts” _builder_version=”4.20.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”|||on|||||” text_orientation=”center” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″] Photo: Getty<\/b><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Think you know everything about male pleasure? 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Not all erections are equal<\/h2>\n
The frenulum is a hidden hotspot<\/h2>\n
Pace yourself<\/h2>\n
Erogenous zones extend beyond the penis<\/h2>\n
Orgasm and ejaculation don\u2019t always go hand in hand<\/h2>\n
The testicles need gentle TLC<\/h2>\n
Post-Orgasm sensitivity is real<\/h2>\n
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